Tuesday, November 25, 2014

Parish Goals 2014-2015

Instead of a sermon we talked about parish goals that the vestry derived from our many conversations over the past year. They follow below - 



GOALS FOR ST. PAUL’S CHURCH – COMPILED FROM PARISH CONVERSATIONS
1.      Adult Formation/Bible Study.
Currently have 4 opportunities for this:
Weekly morning study at Louise Smith’s house                      
Saturday afternoon class for those interested in joining the Episcopal Church/renewing their vows.
Lenten season offerings
Advent season offerings
Goal:
§  Increase adult spiritual development and growth opportunities by 50% for a total of 6.

2.      Youth programs/Youth Formation.
Goals:            
§   Delay confirmation until 15/16.
§   Develop/Provide additional opportunities for adults/church family to   support youth ministries.
§   Identify people in the church who would want to be involved with youth.
§   Work with current parents to develop a program to get both parents and kids involved in the process of confirmation, and beyond.

3.      Social/Community Formation.
Currently have:
Men’s Wednesday lunch.
Two stewardship events
Lunch at the annual meeting
Progressive dinner
Annual Parish picnic
Informal dinners after 5:00 service
Coffee hours
Goal:
§   To promote bonding among parish members, initiate and improve relationships, and increase congregation’s (and their friends!) participation at social events. Need a metric to assess this; count participants at social/church and community service events.


4.      Outreach.

Goal:
§  Encourage more “hands on” connections with organizations that St. Paul’s already contributes to financially. Go out to organizations and ask what we can do for them (Outreach Committee is already beginning to do this). Assess success of goal by how many people show up, participate.
           
5.      Fundraising/Stewardship.

Goal:
§  Increase Stewardship. Specifically increase both pledge income and total number of families pledging by 5%. At end of year, assess how well these goals have been met.


 
 Then we talked about personal participation, and we are using a handout to think about how we might follow up on some of these goals.



Saint Paul’s Church Goals
Personal Action Plan
The goal that interests me is:

I will participate in achieving this goal though the following specific action(s):

I will act within this time period:

Resources – tools – assistance I need to accomplish these actions:
  

Thursday, November 13, 2014

11/16/2014

Proper 28A


           Jesus gives us a parable about the kingdom of heaven. I wonder if this is what we hope for. The ruler or rich and powerful boss treats his slaves pretty harshly. Two invest and make a profit and they are rewarded with more responsibility. The timid slave returns what he was given, but since he made no profit he is shown the door. This picture of God’s kingdom doesn’t give us comfort or any kind of a certain path. This story touches all our fears about scarcity and  our uncertainty about our adequacy. Will God judge us this harshly? Will there be no room for error?

            One of the ways we approach this story is through the language of stewardship. The word “steward” comes from an old English term meaning the ward of the sty –or the keeper of the pigs. Since the animals were valuable it was a very responsible position. The servant owns nothing and is responsible for the health and safety of the lord’s possessions. We have this in mind when we think of ourselves as stewards. We are using something that is not ours. What we have is given to us from God and meant to be used in the name of God. We know this and believe it. How hard it is to live as if it is true! We act as if what we have is ours. We plan our own plans. We seek our own ends. We give what we think we can spare.

            The other trouble with this parable is the double meaning of the word “talent.” For us, a talent is a gift or ability that is unique and special to us. The word in the parable means simply a sum of money – an ingot of silver worth many years’ wages. It is difficult for us to separate ourselves from what we do or who we are – as if my ability to sing or to tell a story is a discreet thing I could cut off and use apart from myself. In the story, the “talent” is simply a sum of money that can be used to invest in some other enterprise.

            We are not called to surrender ourselves blindly. We are being urged to risk what we have to seek God’s kingdom. There is an important distinction. The first is a kind of passive surrender to whatever we think God may wish of us. The second is more of an intentional offering of ourselves to seek the way of God. The two commended slaves actively sought to achieve a purpose for their master’s money. The sought a profit. What do we seek in the name of God? I don’t think we fail to show courage only because we are afraid. I believe we fail to act because we lack something more compelling than the possible result of failure.

            Today is the end of our stewardship appeal for the year. We are seeking to grow in the total amount pledged and the total number of households who pledge. This is always a difficult process. We are uncomfortable talking about money. Given our anxiety about the economy, it is always difficult to get a commitment for the next year ahead. The question goes beyond our fear. The true question is to ask, “What compelling purpose will help us to commit to supporting this community that we love?” The truth is that despite our fears we manage to find the money for the things that are important to us. So why do we always find it difficult to gather the resources we need for this community of faith?

            I could offer as a compelling purpose, simply our relationship to God. God gives us all that we need and far more than we deserve. What we give back is our expression of thanks. Are we not thankful? Are we not joyful for being loved and forgiven? Do we not have hope of eternal life? I think this purpose may fail to compel us because we remember that God has given love freely, without cost, without asking anything from us. It is hard to believe that God will stop loving us after first giving us everything. It’s not that we are ungrateful. We simply hope for more of the same. We’ll try our best. We’ll be good. God will still love us no matter how weakly we limp along.

            I could offer as a compelling purpose the reward of spiritual discipline. If we begin with an intention and slowly work towards a goal, let’s say a tithe, then we gain the reward of losing our dependence on things. We gain freedom from our possessions. We can trust that God will provide even as we see how God gives us all that we need even as we live with less. This is a compelling purpose because I believe that we could all use a little freedom from our money. We worry and we hoard and then we splurge on things we don’t need. God would have us control our money and not be controlled by it.

            I third compelling purpose to pledge is this community. We treasure this place and these people. If it is important to us, then why wouldn’t we want to support it? If we wait for someone else or expect others to make sacrifices for community that we aren’t willing to make, then what does that say about our commitment to community? On the other hand, if we have made a conscious decision to promise a regular and intentional financial offering to this church then we are participating in what we build together. This is true no matter how much we have or how gifted we think we are. If we offer the best we can offer – if we risk creating something together – then we truly belong to something bigger than ourselves.

            I could tell you all about how important it is to work together to create a community of faithful people, trying to walk together towards the way of God. The proof is in what we do together. As we help each other, as we work together, as we share our faith – we see for ourselves how important we are to one another. We are challenged by Jesus’ parable to think about what we are willing to risk. It’s not that we are afraid of some stern master to judge our mistakes. God is ready to reward our risk. What are we willing to risk to create something new? What are we willing to risk to become a new people together?

Friday, November 7, 2014

11/09/2014

Proper 27A

The wise and foolish young women and a very strange wedding...


          The moral of the story is – weddings are a pain in the neck! So often we rush to the teaching, the lesson. What is Jesus trying to say? We should be ready! What a weird story to teach that lesson? We all know the urgency of doing the right thing and living as if God were present. A deeper and harder lesson is to let go of the religious expectations and simply live in the moment. How much harder is this? Do we really live in the moment or are our thoughts already chasing the next thing? Are we really prepared to appreciate the blessings of this present moment?



         Jesus’ parable also has a lot of cultural baggage we have trouble unpacking. What sort of a wedding is this? Who leaves ten young women out in the cold and dark to fend for themselves? Are these ten brides or ten friends of the bride? Where is the bride? Are these bridesmaids property? Servants? Why are they left to their own devices? What sort of party is this that starts so late and locks the doors so quickly?



         This is the kingdom of God – but how does this help us? There is no happy ending for the five foolish women. Maybe we are content to say, “Too bad. You should’ve been ready.” We have to admit our own foolishness and poor life choices. Do we just get in by luck and those others deserve their fate. This hardly seems comforting or hopeful. There seems no room for grace – or even love – and this is supposed to be a wedding? (Who would want to marry such a groom?)



         Maybe we need a tougher faith. Joshua warns the people not to bother to follow God because they will begin to worship idols and God will punish them. Joshua chooses to follow God – what about us? Is the wedding story to steel our resolve or a story to toughen us up? Choose well or lose out! Are we better off not trying than trying and failing?



         Jesus is telling us something about our journey with him. It may take longer than we expect. (I’m used to brides showing up late, but not grooms.) It might cost more than we expect. We are told to take stock. Do we have what we need to keep on? Are we ready for the long wait? Are we ready for our story to unfold differently than we expect?



         We lose track of time. We have plans and deadlines. The holidays come and go. We expect life to unfold as we think and we are upset when life doesn’t. We hardly think about what might happen. Two thousand years ago Christians thought that Jesus would return at any moment and they were troubled that they were waiting. This is where a lot of end times jargon comes from in the letter to the Thessalonians. Will we be caught up into heaven with Jesus? What about those who have died? Somehow, the early Christians found a sort of hope in the midst of what they did not understand. It might be a while, but it will be OK. They trusted in what they knew about Jesus. They trusted his promises – even as they had no idea how those promises would come about.



         Consider our own journey with God. Who would have planned it? Who knows what will come next? What is our hope for the future? We can repeat a hope for heaven or a hope for a new creation. The more difficult step is to describe precisely what we intend to do next. How will we follow Jesus from this moment forward? We are disciples. We do the work of our master. We follow in the steps of our master to become like the master. We must live in faith, living as if everything we have been told is true despite evidence to the contrary. Unlike the ten bridesmaids who were wise or foolish, we are together on our journey. We can choose a different path that brings us all into the party. Instead of wandering, we can hold the hands of those with no oil and bring them in with us.



         We have no right to look down on anyone who is a failure – because we have all been wise and foolish. We’ve been invited into relationships. We have family and friends. We have jobs and future plans. We have also been locked out. We have lost friends and family. We have lost jobs and failed classes. Sometimes we have been foolish and sometimes we have suffered something we didn’t deserve.



         We are happy to be here – whether we feel lucky or not. To some, the church is a locked door. People feel unworthy. People feel judged. They have borne many wounds and many indignities. Jesus is not speaking to them. He is speaking to us. He is warning us not to take our blessing for granted. He is urging us to be ready to meet him. He is also urging us to be ready for whatever blessing there might be in this moment.



         We should not settle for a simple and expected ending of this story. We might feel smug that we are inside and warm. This story judges us. Are we really paying attention? We are not only the lucky few who have found our way in. We can be the invitation. We can be light to those in darkness. We can open the lock and welcome the fools into the feast. The party will be much more fun that way.